Testimonial: When I was asked if I would like to be ,"patient
of the month" I was pretty speechless, that is until I jumped up
and down on the couch thrusting my fists in the air!!! These women are
so beautiful, young and perfect! Wow! I thought why would they pick
me? I am a mother, a wife, a breast cancer survivor. I've had breast cancer!
I am not a model or aspiring professional model, and I'm not an actress
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I am Lisa a breast cancer survivor and regular girl who just wants to
feel feminine again. I wanted to feel, "complete" again.
I lost my breast. The loss of a breast is an extremely difficult
experience for a woman to go through. Mind, Body and spirit do not go
unscathed.
In March of 2005, I was diagnosed with Stage III invasive breast
cancer. It spread to two of my lymph nodes. I didn't detect the
lump because it was laying behind my old breast implants I had for 10
years. My breasts also had capsular contracture and were hard. (I had
my first breast surgery with the old breast implants done by another plastic
surgeon) In addition to having old breast implants, capsular contracture,
I was breast feeding my baby. These factors contributed in my own lack
of detection.
Earlier in the month, my right breast implant deflated. No Big Deal,
I thought, I'll just get new ones! I went in and the doctor found the
lump on the opposite side, my left breast. In fact he found three lumps.
And these lumps you can't have with coffee honey. On March 25th before
replacing my implants he biopsied the tumors. They all came back malignant.
Couldn't they have just been benign? When I woke up from surgery,
I could see my husband sitting next to my bed. He had his head down, tears
in his eyes. "It was cancer?" I asked in disbelief. He slowly
shook his head, yes. God Bless Him. It was so hard on him. I think
I cried in my family's arms for weeks. I kept thinking, if this spread
and I die, I worried would my children remember me? They are so young,
I don't know.
Shock can create a certain fogginess in the mind. Perhaps it's something
in the fog that gives us the strength to get back up off the ground and
fight! A self defense of sorts. Fight, fight, fight and win! Maybe
I won for a few years, maybe for a lifetime. Let's just hope. This is
really all we can do until we find a cure.
On April 12th, 2005 my femininity was taken from me. I had a mastectomy
on my left breast and went through 3 months of chemotherapy. My hair was
gone. My sense of self was forever altered. I was bald. My breast was
gone. Is this happening to me? This world is something I hear
about on the news or read about in a magazine or papers, this wasn't my
world. But it was. It really was. How many times have we all heard about
these stories? How many times have we all thought, "thank God it's
not me? Well this time it was me. Normally, I hate clichés,
but it's true, what doesn't kill us does make us stronger.
I stayed strong and went to the next stage. I did tons and tons
of research on the Internet. I read all that I could to educate myself
on breast reconstruction. Finally one day I found, "The Breast Expert",
Dr. Corbin. Hmmmmm, does he work miracles? Because let me tell you I needed
one! Several months earlier, another plastic surgeon placed a
tissue expander where my old breast used to be. I thought how is this
ever going to look good or normal again. I was emotionally and physically
scared and very nervous when I walked in the waiting room of Dr. Frederic
Corbin, but not for long. The office was warm and inviting, there
were candles burning, beautiful art on the walls and friendly faces to
greet me. I felt at home and at ease. I noticed al l the photos of beautiful
women other patients of his. At first I was a little intimidated. Could
I get those results? Could I look beautiful and feminine?
When I finally met Dr. Corbin he was extremely thorough and detailed
in explaining what my best possible options were. Dr. C carefully explained
step by step how he was going to make a new breast for me. And he did.
Very, very well I might add. Dr. Corbin put new silicone implants in on
both sides matching my breasts perfectly! He did such a beautiful job.
Dr. Corbin works miracles! I believe the results were so great because
he took his time, re-arranging his schedule so that he could get it just
right. It took him almost all day. I'm not aware of many plastic surgeons
who would do that. This speaks volumes about him, doesn't it?
I walked through the fire, the smoke and the darkness, and I came
out on the other side. Dr. Corbin with his healing hands helped me jump
over the last of those burning coals. He made me beautiful. He really
did, in the end, maybe that is why they chose me to be patient of the
month. I walked in quite a mess and Dr. Corbin put me back together again,
and did it beautifully. I am extremely honored to be a patient of Dr.
Corbin's and one of his Patients of the month.
Thank you Dr. Corbin, my miracle worker, my healer, you made me
feel alive again, beautiful again and most of all like a woman again.
And a very special thanks to my girls in the office (They are amazing
aren't they?) Beautiful inside and out, I love you girls! And lastly,
thank you my strong supportive husband who never let go of my hand, shielding
me from as much flame as he could down the path of breast cancer hell
we walked through together. I love you Darren Anthony, my love, my soul
mate, my forever man.
Lisa. |